Have you tried out the revamped WAR? If not, please have a good look at what this player has been through.
As joining a guild was essential for making some accomplishments in WAR, he needed to find a guild first. Then he was presented with a pretty cool guild search interface on which various criteria like guild size, guild rank, amount of players online are available. Though the player still hasn't decided which guild he should join, he was glad to find his tier two Shaman on Iron Rock did find a guild. He still could find bursts of RvR fun in small doses in WAR. However, getting to the city siege stage of the campaign is all about one of three things: timing, realm balance, or effort. In addition, if you want to experience a city siege, it will take much of your time which is considered to be a kind of hindrance. Talking about realm balance, Destruction seems more active during the day and Order seems more active at night.
Maybe you can learn some tips from above.

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